My last two Christmases have not been the best. I've suffered with my mental health quite badly over the last two Winters and festive periods. I'm hoping for a much better December this year, I hope I will have no blips with my mental health in the run-up to Christmas. This is why I am trying to not only show more gratitude this Christmas, but I want to remember all the things that have always brought me joy in December.
In terms of what things bring joy to us at Christmas and December, it doesn't necessarily have to be the biggest things, but it can be the smallest things. We all find joy in different things, whether it be Christmas or not. Someone may love to eat all the Brussels sprouts they can get during Christmas dinner. For me, that would be my idea of blergh!
You may be able to take some inspiration from the things that always bring me joy at Christmas. Some of these things I'm going to list you may not agree with, but some may have you nodding in agreement!
Here are the things that always bring me joy in December (in no particular order):
1) Food
Pigs in blankets, hot chocolate, snacking until your heart's content - I'm in! Going through the supermarkets now, shelves are full to the brim of Christmas-themed food, snacks and drinks. I love to make the most of the supermarket at Christmas as some food items are only available until after Christmas!
2) Christmas lights
A Christmas tradition which I have done since I started driving is driving around looking at Christmas lights. Unfortunately, as the driver, it's pretty difficult and dangerous for me to admire Christmas lights while driving down badly lit roads. However, my Mam is always with me so she describes them as I concentrate! I love seeing the colour scheme and theme people go for with Christmas lights.
3) Christmas films
Elf, Miracle on 34th Street, Muppet Christmas Carol, Home Alone - it's Christmas movie season and I am all for it. Nothing brings me more joy than curling up on the sofa, under a blanket with a hot chocolate watching a Christmas film.
4) Spending quality time with family and friends
Spending time with loved ones in December feels more special and fulfilling in a way than at any other time of year. It could be spending time with your extended family, with your partner or even just your dog or cat. I know that spending time with family for some people isn't easy, so make sure you set boundaries for yourself.
5) Cosy knitwear
I'm not just talking about Christmas jumpers. I just mean those extra comfy and cosy jumpers and cardigans. The ones you dig out at the start of Winter to keep yourself warm.
6) Christmas pyjamas
I'm someone who does love wearing Christmas pyjamas throughout December. I do love buying a new pair of Christmas pyjamas every year. I've been scouring Vinted for some lately and there are loads on there for sale!
7) Advent calendars
Yes, I am a 30-year-old woman and I still love an advent calendar. Not just the chocolate ones, I do love the traditional cardboard one where you see a little Christmassy photo behind the numbered window. I still get excited to open the double window on Christmas Eve! I seriously need to get out more.
8) Sunny, crisp days
Going for a walk on those sunny, crisp days definitely blows away the cobwebs and even provides renewed energy. I usually like to take walks during December to get myself out of the house and just enjoy the limited sunshine December supplies us.
9) Christmas music
I know, I know, we get fed up with hearing the same defrosted Christmas songs every year! However, when you do hear them on the radio or Apple playlist, you can't help belting out a Mariah Carey high note or wish Christmas could be every day like Wizzard.
Yes sometimes the holiday season can bring on sadness despite it being a joyous time of year. I hope you sail through this season and everything on your list brings me holiday Christmas joy too.Kind of sad when it is over but I have FW to deal with a month later so I don't have time to mourn LOL.
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Thank you Allie, I hope you have a wonderful festive season too! Haha I can imagine you'll be busy when FW rolls around!
DeleteI'm glad that people still find joy in the holidays! I'm personally one who doesn't quite get the festive spirit like everyone else (due to grief involving the holidays), but I'm glad that you've found reasons why this time of year brings you joy!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that the holidays involves grief for you Winnie, sending lots of love!
DeleteLove all of these things at Christmas - The Holiday is also one of my favourite Christmas films! Enjoy! x
ReplyDeleteThe Holiday is such a lovely Christmas film isn't it?! I hope you have a great Christmas Sammi x
DeleteI am with you on all of this Lucy! Nothing better than a box of Christmas chocolates and sitting down to watch Elf in all the cosiness x
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely Caroline, it's absolute bliss! x
DeleteYes! Absolutely all of these! I love everything about December and the build up to Christmas. I'm very much a 'treat yourself' type person at this time of year, so the food shop gets more exciting, the cupboards are stocked with winter warmies and we're off doing festive activities. Love it!
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Aww I love that you treat yourself more at this time of year Claire, I do love food shopping at this time of year! x
DeleteSo true. These are the things that make my holiday season lovely. I love watching holiday movies and spending time with family.
ReplyDeleteThey are my favourite things to do at Christmas too Fadima!
DeleteThis is so very relatable. I hope you continue to find joy x
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with all of this! Can't choose my favourite x
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you agree with all of this Lea-Mai! x
DeleteThis post is speaking my language! I am here for all the Christmas food and films!
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I'm looking forward to watching all of the Christmas films and eating all the Christmas food too Rosie!
DeleteThis is such a lovely list, Lucy! The holidays are so special and I can't wait to watch Christmas movies and indulge in delicious foods.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to watch Christmas movies and indulge in some great food too!
DeleteYes to all of these! I am in my element during this season as I love feeling cozy and having some good food as I watch some great shows and do some reading. Perfection!
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to hear that you feel that you're in your element during the festive season!
DeleteLooks like a cosy set up in those images! I hope this Christmas is much better than the past ones!
ReplyDeleteCorinne x
Thank you Corinne, I hope you have a great Christmas! x
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