Some love to be on the go constantly and think resting is stopping them from getting things done (pretty much me). On the other hand, some love to lollop onto the sofa and binge-watch a Netflix series for hours. Whether you're on one side or the other, one thing your body and mind need once in a while is a good rest. It's not viable or healthy to be on the go constantly. I know people will say, "Well, that's what sleep at night is for!" However, your body needs to take a five-minute break and rest before starting up again. Kind of like taking your lunch break at work, your body and mind need to relax and reenergise before you're off doing your next thing.
It's not just about resting physically and mentally; it's about resting other aspects of your life every now and then. In all, there are about seven areas of your life that you actually need to rest. Ok, I know that number is daunting, and you're probably wondering if you even have seven areas in your life that need looking after. But when I list those areas, you will see what I mean.
Here are the seven areas of resting periods you actually need to do in your life:
1) Physical rest
Let's start with one of the obvious ones. We all know we need physical rest daily. No physical rest = health issues. Your body needs to recover physically from various aspects, including work, exercise, and just life in general. Life can be physically challenging, so it's important to take time to give your whole body a little relaxation period.
Relaxing physically comes in many forms. You can do things such as taking a quick nap, stretching, deep breathing, yoga, or even lying down with your eyes closed for a few minutes.
2) Mental rest
This is just as vital as physical rest. I'm a true believer in mental health being just as important as physical health. Mental rest is so important to do daily to keep your mind sharp and not let any anxious or stressy thoughts creep in.
Some activities you can do to give your mind a rest is do a brain dump (writing all your thoughts on paper), journaling, practicing gratitude, meditating or breath work.
3) Emotional rest
Ok, this may sound like I'm delving into mental rest again, but there is a difference. Emotional rest combines a mix of mental health and feelings. It involves saying no, not people pleasing, setting boundaries and getting stuff out in the open if needed.
Some ways to do this include talking about how you're feeling to a trusted friend or family member, forgiving yourself for previous mistakes or seeking therapy if necessary.
4) Creative rest
This is one I need to practice more often, but I have difficulty doing so. As a freelancer and being self-employed, I feel I can't just switch off, as not only do I need to find and do work to earn money, but I always feel there's something that always needs doing.
If you're like me and feel yourself empathising with my situation, there's a way to practice a creative rest. They include getting out in nature, visiting a museum and/or art gallery or taking time away from your phone.
5) Sensory rest
Sensory rest involves reducing sensory input to counteract the overstimulation from things like screens, noise and activity. Overstimulation is an experience caused by too much mental activity and sensory input. Things like loud noises, bright lights, potent smells and big crowds are key factors that cause overstimulation.
Ways to practice sensory rest are to put your phone away (particularly an hour or so before bedtime), turn off notifications, use noise-cancelling headphones or listen to relaxing nature sounds.
6) Social rest
Managing social energy and socialising is not only good for your mental health, but also for your physical health. Sometimes we make plans with friends or family, and sometimes we don't feel up to it when the time comes. It's important to manage your socialising so you don't become tired of being in social situations altogether.
Things like saying no to plans when you're not feeling up to it, spending alone time, not overscheduling and even ensuring you're spending time with positive people when you do socialise.
7) Spiritual rest
I'm not the most spiritual person you'll meet, but many are. Spiritual rest allows you to nourish and practice your spirituality and ensures you find your inner peace.
Examples of spiritual rest involve going to your place of worship, practicing gratitude, volunteering and doing reflective practices like journaling.
Practicing resting and taking time for yourself is key.
It doesn't have to take up an awful lot of your time, and you don't have to do all of these ideas in one go. But it's about reflecting what your body and mind need. You know your own body and mind better than anyone, so you ideally know what is best for you. What activity may work for me may not work for you, and vice versa.
It's just finding those few spare minutes and making time to rest. You'll know what your body and mind are crying out for.




I love how you sectioned this out for different types of rest - which are all so essential! I could use more spiritual rest (I've been trying to do the Bible Recap and keep missing days) as well as emotional rest. I completely agree with you that there's a difference between that and mental rest, I'm the worst about healthy boundaries sometimes so this is a good reminder for me!
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I hope this post has inspired you to take those rest periods you feel you need Ashley!
DeleteOkay ... I really need to take a break from almost everything after this upcoming book fair. Believe I'm having mental fatigue for working too hard.
ReplyDeleteI think you need a well-earned rest after this book fair you got coming up! You need to slow down once it's all done and dusted!
DeleteThis just made me cry as I desperately need physical and mental rest before thinking about the others. I have not slept properly for 14 months now and it is taking its toll on me
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry that this post has made you emotional Samantha! I really hope you give yourself the time to rest and recharge as much as you need to.
DeleteI only knew three of your rest periods...I definitely need all of them tbh...I will start to add the different rest periods in my daily schedule. Thank you soooo much.
ReplyDeleteI think we all need to do these resting periods every now and again to reset and recharge! I'm glad you've added these to your daily schedule Karen!
DeleteThere are definitely a few times of rest I need to prioritise more! Though I would say, I love journaling to destress at the end of the day :)
ReplyDeleteJournaling is a great way to de-stress at the end of the day. It's good to get your thoughts down on paper after a busy and stressful day!
DeleteLove the normalising of rest! I read a book called Wintering and it completely changed my outlook on rest - do check it out if you haven't read, beautifully written.
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Oh I definitely need to check out Wintering and add it to my TBR pile!
DeleteI really never thought of different kinds of rest before. I knew we needed rest, but I just though rest was rest.
ReplyDeleteIt's surprising how mnay aspects of our lives require a rest Beth!
DeleteSocial rest is the one I am lagging on. I really need it, and never do it. Thank you for reminding me of that - I promise I will change LOL
ReplyDeleteI hope this post influences you to practice social rest Mahy!
DeleteI don't think I get enough rest in any of these areas to be honest, and with a 10 month old I'm still trying to build a routine. But mental and creative are probably the two I need most rest in x
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine how busy your life is with having a 10 month old Rhian! I hope you manage to practice those much needed resting periods soon! x
DeleteI had some concept of resting and how important it is. I did not think about the different forms there are. Emotional rest and creative rest are completely new concepts for me.
ReplyDeleteResting is so important as it allows you to recharge and reset these apsects of your life when needing to. I hope you practice a few of these resting periods Andreia!
DeleteThis is a good reminder that things like social, creative, and sensory rest matter just as much for feeling balanced . The idea of “resting better” feel way more realistic, since you can pick what you actually need instead of trying to do it all at once.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely Nick, all these resting periods give you balance in your life. This post is a good way to figure out what kind of resting period you need and to practice it if needed.
DeleteI love how you've sectioned this off into so many different sections. There's things here I've not thought about before. I think there's probably a few areas I could rest more with. I'm very much the type to do everything all at once, and then after a few weeks need a day to totally crash.
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I'm like that sometimes too Claire, I like to get things done all at once then think about rest later! x
DeleteSensory rest is a big deal. I have to decompress after a day of teaching, almost always. I appreciate my job (and love it most days) but there's a lot going on.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree that both our body and mind needs a good rest once in a while. Thanks a lot for these tips.
ReplyDeleteI really had not thought about emotional rest or creative rest. It's hard to ever fully rest in this day and age!
ReplyDeleteI find it super hard to switch off as there is always something to do. Love the idea of just rest and nothing else!
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