tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post118780031279479022..comments2024-03-28T03:07:39.758-07:00Comments on Lucy Mary: Yes, There Is Such A Thing As A Mid Mid-Life Crisis!Lucy Maryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-59294826408847931112019-05-24T02:46:28.498-07:002019-05-24T02:46:28.498-07:00I think the pressure of people’s expectations can ...I think the pressure of people’s expectations can get to us Kirstin, but you’re right, I’ve just had to accept that my path is different to everyone else’s! I love that phrase - “an adultier adult” ! Lucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-1792570636561248672019-05-14T13:42:50.467-07:002019-05-14T13:42:50.467-07:00Chloe, send me some of your vibes in a bottle plea...Chloe, send me some of your vibes in a bottle please! I never thought of it this way, we are still sort of learning in our 20's, I will definitely adopt this attitude now! xxLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-34678676388025453042019-05-14T13:41:13.366-07:002019-05-14T13:41:13.366-07:00You're absolutely right lovely, it's not a...You're absolutely right lovely, it's not a failure on your part, you're just unique! I can't believe you got fired from your job because of your mental health, that's disgusting! I hope you sued (if that's the right word!) for unfair dismissal! Lucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-32053146216931813502019-05-14T13:28:24.713-07:002019-05-14T13:28:24.713-07:00I can totally relate. When I was a kid all I wante...I can totally relate. When I was a kid all I wanted to do was to get out of school and be an adult and live my life how I wanted to live it. Now, I'm 24 almost 25, and I would so love to be a kid again. Adult life is so hard. I'm definitely not where I want to be in life, and I too have panicked that I'm not in a job that I love and that my life is going nowhere and will I just be like this for the rest of my life? But I think we need to remind ourselves that being in our 20s we are still so young, and still have plenty of time to achieve our dreams <3<br /><br />Chloe xx<br />www.chloechats.comChloe Chatshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17771700359754824350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-26891456588714740132019-05-14T02:44:07.689-07:002019-05-14T02:44:07.689-07:00By the time I was 25 I thought I'd be settled ...By the time I was 25 I thought I'd be settled down and either have kids or a career...as my 25th birthday approached I was like "well, at least I have a job that I'm thinking about advancing into a career" and then I got fired 2 weeks before my 25th because I'd had too much time off work struggling with my mental health and I crashed so hard because I hadn't done anything I thought I should have by that age, bar have two nervous breakdowns (yaaaaay?) <br /><br />I'm now heading towards 30 and since I got diagnosed with Autism last year (oh hey, turns out I'm not crazy) I've relaxed a bit about not keeping up with my peers - developmentally I'm at a different stage to them and that's okay. It's not a failure on my part, it's a difference in our wiring. ThatAutisticFitChickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02046986089079654636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-65560883870994804012019-05-13T04:53:53.529-07:002019-05-13T04:53:53.529-07:00That’s true!That’s true!Lucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-1733873500630391342019-05-13T04:53:07.368-07:002019-05-13T04:53:07.368-07:00Aww lovely I hope you get through yours! I think t...Aww lovely I hope you get through yours! I think things will just fall into place for you!Lucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-30345630976333413392019-05-13T04:47:55.866-07:002019-05-13T04:47:55.866-07:00This can happen any time of your life and many tim...This can happen any time of your life and many times it can happen.. this is kind of I am not happy monolog without words :)Pandorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14619415856691677196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-83748743668945304912019-05-13T02:54:36.474-07:002019-05-13T02:54:36.474-07:00I haven't hit my mid-twenties yet but I am def...I haven't hit my mid-twenties yet but I am definitely experiencing the 'after uni life crisis'! I may of just made that up but currently I have three weeks left of uni and I am terrified purely because I have no jobs lined up and I have no idea what I am going to do.. I'm trying to not let it upset me but recently I can't stop thinking about 'what on earth am I going to do?!' and I keep comparing myself! I really hope I get over this little crisis soon and I hope you get through yours too! <br /><br />Tabitha 💛🌵🤠 <br />www.latenightsandlattes.co.ukTabitha Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12754252090239226649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-26921106286160587042019-05-13T00:40:04.694-07:002019-05-13T00:40:04.694-07:00I’m glad you’ve overcome it Hollie! xI’m glad you’ve overcome it Hollie! xLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-54271775555120911702019-05-13T00:37:32.810-07:002019-05-13T00:37:32.810-07:00Definitely felt like this when I turned 25, I ende...Definitely felt like this when I turned 25, I ended up reverting back to my younger days and trying to get back what I missed as an 18/19 year old due to having my son. It was a tough couple of years but I’ve overcome my mid mid-life crisis thank god! X<br /><br />Hollie | www.lifewithmytrio.com Holliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12353361553352309264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-40983423451074394252019-05-13T00:31:11.662-07:002019-05-13T00:31:11.662-07:00Thank you Chloe! I’m glad you could relate xThank you Chloe! I’m glad you could relate xLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-26662502139412651472019-05-13T00:26:29.528-07:002019-05-13T00:26:29.528-07:00Yes I think we have all been there at home point. ...Yes I think we have all been there at home point. I know I think back to when I was younger and thought my life would be different but it never pans out quite how it seems. Love this post I can relate x Chloe https://www.blogger.com/profile/16335133246095813076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-9049287324547197722019-05-12T09:56:06.975-07:002019-05-12T09:56:06.975-07:00Congratulations on graduating Faye! I hope you hav...Congratulations on graduating Faye! I hope you have a great day! I completely agree, whatever will be will be! Lucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-58068510406518108942019-05-12T09:04:26.875-07:002019-05-12T09:04:26.875-07:00I completely get where you're coming from. I&#...I completely get where you're coming from. I'm about to graduate university and I have no clue what I'm doing afterwards. I was definitely stressing out about it earlier on in the year but now I'm sort of at peace with the mystery of it all. Whatever will be will be !<br /><br />https://www.femaleoriginal.comFayehttps://www.femaleoriginal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-19486794788571611212019-05-12T06:12:19.459-07:002019-05-12T06:12:19.459-07:00You have such a great attitude Sarah! I need you t...You have such a great attitude Sarah! I need you to send me some of your vibes my way please! xLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-35369914915395104772019-05-12T06:05:05.597-07:002019-05-12T06:05:05.597-07:00I don't think I've had a mid life crisis a...I don't think I've had a mid life crisis at any point of my life so far. I turned 48 this January and I've literally just winged it up to now, taking each day as it comes. It's weird as I'm an avid planner & list maker but I've never ever made a list or planned anything regarding my life and where I wanted to be etc. I've had a lot of curve balls thrown at me - like 8yrs ago I became housebound & bedridden - but I've just rolled with the punches, even if I've been frustrated at times. :)<br /><br />Sarah 🌺 || <a href="https://boxnip.co.uk" rel="nofollow">Boxnip</a> || <a href="https://boxnip.co.uk/nordgreen-watch-giveaway/" rel="nofollow">Latest Post</a>Boxniphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13176824577997003328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-15023901548098361022019-05-12T02:05:59.812-07:002019-05-12T02:05:59.812-07:00I think we’re all just winging it aren’t we Chloe?...I think we’re all just winging it aren’t we Chloe?! I did have a great birthday thank you! xxLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-52371155961658793462019-05-12T02:03:06.347-07:002019-05-12T02:03:06.347-07:00I completely agree with this, particularly how you...I completely agree with this, particularly how you feel about having to catch up to others. It’s hard to feel like you’re doing things right when people around you are getting promotions, having babies and getting engaged! However I think it’s important to realise we’re not the only ones and a lot of us have no idea what we’re doing, even the ones who seem to have perfect lives! Also I hope you had a great birthday!xChloe Osbornhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12890039400180693478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-76837117745947948622019-05-11T15:28:33.321-07:002019-05-11T15:28:33.321-07:00I completely agree Katie, I think we’re all just w...I completely agree Katie, I think we’re all just winging it! xxLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-80278971444202858112019-05-11T15:27:40.542-07:002019-05-11T15:27:40.542-07:00Absolutely Louise! It’s good to have people around...Absolutely Louise! It’s good to have people around you who are in the same boat! xLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-73678384104095520912019-05-11T12:27:51.317-07:002019-05-11T12:27:51.317-07:00HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I'm 26 next month and I hav...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I'm 26 next month and I have a baby, some people think that would be "having your life together" but I wing it everyday. I think everyone looks at everyone else and think why are you so together or why do you know what you are doing?! but in reality we are just making it up as we go along. <br /><br />Katie xx<br />Www.katienor.comMummywhohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06227844322685634759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-85183348141023889042019-05-11T10:58:19.385-07:002019-05-11T10:58:19.385-07:00Happy birthday! I know exactly how this feels, I t...Happy birthday! I know exactly how this feels, I turn 30 this year but I've been having this panic for at least five years now! I am nowhere near getting my shit together and though I have a fair few friends settled down , I also have some that are in the exact same position as me which helps me realize I'm not alone. There's definitely so much pressure on our geneation around this age! xLouisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17922983735305927345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-89111787910601421452019-05-11T08:51:04.513-07:002019-05-11T08:51:04.513-07:00Haha I know! I hate that I have to tick the next a...Haha I know! I hate that I have to tick the next age box down, it depresses me a bit! I'm glad you could relate to this post Katherine! xxLucy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04841527392746870535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8541552407677501610.post-31026901175536162542019-05-11T08:42:55.707-07:002019-05-11T08:42:55.707-07:00First thing's first, HAPPY BIRTHDAY LUCY!
But...First thing's first, HAPPY BIRTHDAY LUCY!<br /><br />But OMG I have been feeling this so much lately, and it started hitting me when I turned 25 in October last year. I still live at home as well, I've only dated long distance (and guys nearby frustrate me), and I'm JUST now actually starting to do what I've wanted to do for years (depression and anxiety held me back for a long time). The mid-life crisis is SO real; I didn't think it would hit me until I was at least in my 30s, but I've been feeling just about everything you mentioned here since I turned 25. <br /><br />It also kind of hit me the other day when I was taking some survey online, and I was in the next age category when they have you choose your age group (18-24, 25-30-something.. etc); seems silly but... still haha. Katherine Isabella Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02571275901705561755noreply@blogger.com